She says it looks desperate and lonely!
Why do we have to feel susceptible to being transparent or honest? Why can’t we talk about our feelings, expectations or desires publicly if it doesn’t offend anyone especially the creator? Love and Success is healthy and Powerful, right? As long as you don’t abuse it, right? The last I checked, desperation is a state of despair, typically one that results in rash or extreme behavior. When one chooses to feel comfortable in their skin and appropriately embracing positive things, we should be comfortable in our skin to let them speak freely without associating it to negativity. If a hurt person still believes that love exists that’s strength, not weakness, right? If a person who has several failed attempts at success and they embrace moving forward and encourage others, that's strength not weakness, right? What has our mentality narrowed down to, where we make positive thoughts negative? What has our mentality narrowed down to, when we begin to associate uplifting others daily as being redundant? We teach people that if they say too much, they look suspect! Interesting and disturbing I might say! Transparency shouldn’t make an individual feel like they need to shift who they are to accommodate insecurities. You guys are sadly confusing people. I think those who contradict what’s good and bad are insecure individuals who truly want to speak more than they are on mute. Don’t mute yourself for ANYONE except God. Set yourself FREE!
B. Watkins, M.Ed.
Author, A Search For Her New Beginning